IHN Families

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    Off to Camp They Go!

    IHN families in our shelter program, and the home for good program were given the opportunity to send their kids to various summer camps in the region. Thanks to the generosity of individual donors, The Montclair Foundation, Orange Orphan Society, United Way and Wyoming Presbyterian Church, approximately 35 kids from IHN are enrolled in a variety of camps, including Mont Lawn Camp, Johnsonburg Camp, Montclair YMCA, and Rutgers Basketball and Hockey Camps. Additionally, summer day ...

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    Awards and Grants to IHN

    This year, the Montclair Foundation, and the Montclair Fund for Women awarded $10,000 each to IHN to support programs that address homelessness among low income families living in Montclair. Additionally, Partners for Health foundation, also based in Montclair, made a grant of $4,000 to help IHN produce a new promotional video. The Montclair Foundation awarded IHN $10,000 to help 5 – 6 low income families in Montclair receive assistance to prevent homelessness through case ...

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    Another School Year Celebrated

    With schools out for the summer, our after school program is now on summer break! This year our after school enrichment program exposed participants to STEM programs, robotics, gardening, pottery, baking, and field trips to the wax museum in NYC, and the Montclair Learning Center. Students also celebrated Valentine’s day and Halloween, and made Christmas baskets for their parents, and mother’s day gift baskets. It was a successful year all around thanks to our dedicated ...

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    Determined to Succeed

    Kowie couldn’t imagine having to go into a shelter. After she and her husband Rashawn lost their jobs in Alabama they moved to NJ where they had grown up.

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    Her Family Keeps Her Going

    Everything suddenly turned upside down when her employer was bought out and the new company didn’t rehire her. Bills piled up and it wasn’t long until she was unable to pay her rent.

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    In Praise of Grandma

    With rental and food assistance from IHN, Vicki was able to move into a new apartment and provide her grandson with the stability he needs.

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Smith Family Finds “Home for Good”

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We really didn’t see it coming.

Knowing the lease on our home was about to expire, Martisa and I had saved up a little extra for moving. But it turned out that no one would rent to us. I had a past eviction on my credit report and the rental companies wouldn’t see past it.

We wanted to stay in the same town until our three kids finished the school year so we had to start staying in motels. But that got expensive, so by the time school ended, we were left with a few hundred dollars. We had no choice but to split up and move in with parents and friends.

By now, we were desperate for a solution. Thankfully, Martisa found IHN. At first, I didn’t want any part of staying in a shelter, but she convinced me that it would be a safe, clean environment for our children. And it was! Then after about a month, one of IHN’s Home for Good apartments opened up.

Working with Brenda Myrick, we moved in about a year ago and have been trying to rebuild our lives. As part of the Home for Good program, we meet with IHN for weekly case management services to see how we’re doing with meeting our goals. It takes hard work to move forward, especially in this economy but I’m just grateful to IHN for giving us a hand-up. We’re not where we used to be, but we’re getting there!

 

Tamir Gets His Wish

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Tamir doesn’t ask for much for himself.

In fact every time his social worker at school probed him for a wish list, he gave the same answer: a house for my family, a job for my mom, and happiness for my family.

One day, she said, “Tamir, you never tell me what you want for just for yourself. What’s your favorite thing in the whole world?” Immediately, his face lit up and he exclaimed, “Basketball!”

Well, that got his social worker thinking.

Her husband worked for Calvin Klein and she remembered that the company outfitted Amar’e Stoudemire, center/forward with the NY Knicks, with his suits. Just maybe her husband could arrange something special and unexpected for this boy who had spent over four months in IHN’s Congregational Shelter.

That day came to be when Tamir was presented with an Amar’e Stoudemire jersey and an autographed framed picture of the player. Although the jersey may be a bit large for him, we know he’ll wear it often.

And the picture? That will be hanging on his new bedroom wall.

 

Grateful to Be Home

Things were starting to unravel for Stephanie.

Bills were piling up. She was having difficulty paying her rent. And then it happened: she lost her job. Now paying rent went from hard to impossible and Stephanie found herself and children, Sasha and Stephen, evicted and homeless.

Taking temporary refuge at her sister’s in New York, Stephanie started making a dizzying number of calls — calls for shelter, calls for housing, calls for jobs. Thankfully, one of those calls panned out — the one from Brenda Myrick, director of social services at IHN, telling Stephanie that she had room in the Network for her family.

Having a place to stay like IHN was Stephanie’s key to making progress. StephenShe was able to find a new job that she loves: teaching math to developmentally disabled adults. IHN advocated the school district so Sasha and Stephen would be provided with transportation to IHN’s Family Day Center for childcare after school. And the volunteers at each congregation occupied her children with fun activities when Stephanie just needed a break to attend to all the things a mom has to do when the work day is done.

Even though Stephanie and her children had to spend the holidays in the shelter, she’s grateful for the time she needed to get her life in order. In particular, Stephanie credits a financial workshop for helping her get to the point where she could move into her own apartment. Offered by Investor’s Bank and Home Corp. through IHN’s Home for Good program, Stephanie learned how to slash her expenses for rent, cell phone service, even car insurance resulting in $450 in monthly savings.

Now that she and her children are happily settled in their new home, she reflects on her experience. Although her young children sailed through their episode of homelessness they now have a new urgency when they wake each morning. She’ll hear Stephen calling, “Sasha! Wake up. We need to get ready for school on time so Mommy isn’t late for work. We don’t want to be homeless again!” Perhaps it’s an awareness that most elementary children don’t have but for the Edwards family they have a new-found gratefulness for a home of their own.

 

All for the better

“I think I went through all that for a reason,” reflects Tara, commenting about her experience with homelessness.

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Explaining how “all that” happened isn’t easy because it wasn’t just one event but a string of unfortunate situations that ended with being locked out of her apartment by her landlord. That’s what can happen when you’re three months behind on rent, putting off one bill to satisfy another.

Desperate to find shelter for herself and two daughters while maintaining a full-time job wasn’t easy. After spending a short time in emergency shelter, Brenda Myrick, IHN director of social services, called Tara with the good news: she was accepted into the IHN Home for Good program and could soon move into her two-bedroom apartment in Orange. As part of the program she would be working with IHN Case Manager Janice Wilkerson, to help her meet her goals for self-sufficiency.

Now that Tara and her daughters have settled into their new dwelling, she’s seeing how things in her life are gradually falling into place. Take her commute for instance. Without a car, Tara had to rely on a very unpredictable bus service to get to work. Seemed like no matter how much time she allowed, she was always late. How timely then that she received a pay raise that was retroactive for two years, and just enough to allow her to buy a car. Tara points to other events that righted themselves just in time for the better.

She credits Janice, her case manager, with helping her make so many positive steps. Calling her “a guardian angel,” Tara says she’s grateful for how Janice is helping her to be more focused and organized, providing good advice along the way. Tara has started a budget and is careful to live within her means. She’s also putting money away with her credit union so she’s better prepared for the unexpected expenses that can come along.

And how are her daughters doing? Tara was worried about their transition to a new school. But if getting on the honor roll and being involved in numerous school activities are any indication, then the girls are doing just fine.

At IHN, we say the Home for Good program is solving homelessness one family at a time. We think Tara is living proof.

 

A Day to Shine

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At IHN, we try our best to make life as normal as possible for families in the shelter. That means helping children maintain the same activities and opportunities that they had before they lost their homes.

Amanda is a 14-year-old we feel compelled to brag about. She gained the spotlight — literally — when she performed recently at NJPAC. As a member of the NJPAC Young Artist Institute, Amanda studied modern dance offered to talented young New Jersey performers (ages 11–18).

Described by NJPAC as an artistically rigorous yet nurturing environment, Amanda received intensive technique training, personal assistance, encouragement and helpful advice from professional artists — all this while being homeless. This program has given Amanda important training, confidence, and experience to continue her training in dance.

A Long Way Home

For Yairis and Yennier, homelessness came about when both of them lost their jobs.

ribboncuttingStriving to support their three children, they quickly depleted their savings and resorted to selling their belongings in order to feed their kids.

With no extended family to help and no money left to pay rent, the family became homeless and turned to Interfaith Hospitality Network of Essex County.

Thankfully, Yairis and Yennier were able to enter the IHN Home for Good program and now have their own apartment. Just like Tara, they meet regularly with an IHN social worker to reach their goals for independence.

Today, Yairis is working full time, Yennier is taking classes to learn English as a second language, and all three children are thriving in school.

Looking back at the last year and seeing how far they’ve come, Yardi expressed her gratitude in a poem. She says she looks forward to the day when she can volunteer with IHN to help others learn from her situation.